THINKING RETRIBUTION OUT OF THE BOX
Take a look at their faces. Do they look particularly dismissive of Torah study or modesty? * The real stampede is overbearing rebuke, fixation on negative attention.
Take a look at their faces. Do they look particularly dismissive of Torah study or modesty? * The real stampede is overbearing rebuke, fixation on negative attention.
Many a time such a question will strike up a heated discussion. One side would strongly claim that we must protect our homes and keep to the highest standards, not letting in any “outside” influences. Others will offer an opposing view on the matter [claiming that such conduct would be divisive and “elitist” in nature. There are indeed cases when one must be wary about which influences reach their children], but I wish to share a perspective that sheds a different light onto this matter.
How can we even be expected to feel for G-d the way we feel for a trusted friend? Is that a realistic, attainable goal? Can we attain a genuine connection with the infinite Creator? Can you fathom having G-d present in every facet of your life? Do you welcome Him in every dark corner of your world?
If I understand the question correctly, it seems like the main complaint here is “why can’t I just wear the clothes I feel good in” like everyone in general society wearing the clothes they choose, and instead must be restricted by a Halachic dress-code?
In connection with Parshas Pekudei which discusses the priestly garb, we present a collection of halachic articles from Halacha2Go.com on the topic of proper dress code, as well as some questions and answers from AskTheRav.com
Let us start by distinguishing between a man and a woman when it comes to dress and fashion, a tznius woman is not only permitted to dress beautifully but she is encouraged to do so for reasons beyond the scope of this particular question